{"id":206858,"date":"2020-04-13T14:35:23","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T14:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/strengthbasedliving.com\/?p=206858"},"modified":"2021-05-05T16:44:29","modified_gmt":"2021-05-05T16:44:29","slug":"the-power-of-rituals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/getting-inspired\/the-power-of-rituals\/","title":{"rendered":"The Power of Rituals"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start\" style=\"max-width:1216.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"transform:translate3d(0,0,0);\"><p>As we adjust to our new \u2018normal,\u2019 time continues to march forward. We\u2019re in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic, yet people all over the world are celebrating religious holidays like Easter and Passover. Steeped in rituals, these traditions can help us feel comforted when under duress.<\/p>\n<p>As one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.viacharacter.org\/character-strengths-via\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">24 character strengths<\/a>, spirituality is about connecting with meaning and purpose in daily life. It\u2019s accessible to all of us, not only those who practice organized religions. Notice that within the word itself lies the noun, \u2018ritual.\u2019 In times of hardship, rituals can be powerful tools for managing stress and emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/04\/the-restorative-power-of-ritual\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Restorative Power of Ritual<\/a>, a Harvard Business Review article, describes how we can expand our perspective on the power of rituals. Mike Norton, a Harvard Business School professor who studied the effects of rituals on well-being, says that:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>In the face of loss, rituals can help us feel less grief,<\/li>\n<li>Rituals with families can make us feel closer, and<\/li>\n<li>Rituals between partners can reinforce their commitment to each other.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These rituals don\u2019t need to continue forever, only while they\u2019re helpful.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div><div style=\"text-align:center;\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\" style=\"margin-top:25px;margin-bottom:25px;\"><img width=\"889\" height=\"200\" title=\"blog14b\" src=\"http:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blog14b.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-207146\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blog14b-200x45.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blog14b-400x90.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blog14b-600x135.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blog14b-800x180.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blog14b.jpg 889w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 889px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\" style=\"transform:translate3d(0,0,0);\"><h4>The Inspiration<\/h4>\n<p>This week\u2019s practice is designed to help you discover a comforting ritual of your own. As I was completing this practice myself, I discovered a ritual that\u2019s both meaningful and comforting. Each morning after my cup of coffee, I listen to the Celine Dion and Andrea Bocelli duet of the song, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QctoD57aYqw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Prayer<\/a>.\u201d Many thanks for a friend of mine who shared a video of herself singing this song on Facebook. She was my inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>Why did I choose this? For me, music is like a salve that soothes. It connects me with some of the most meaningful experiences in my life, like singing in a choir at the Berlin Wall many years ago or performing a holiday program in a local nursing home. Music fills me with positive emotions like hope and joy. In my experience, it can be a unifying power. It may seem strange, but at this time, it\u2019s what comforts me.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Now, I invite you to give it a go. There isn\u2019t a \u201crecipe\u201d you can follow, but the reflection and practice below will help guide you in discovering your own comforting ritual.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>The Reflection<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Begin your reflection by pondering this thought:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cWhen facing difficulty in the past, the rituals that brought me the most comfort were\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Take your time with this reflection. You might wish to journal or speak with a trusted friend about it. Feel free to let your thoughts flow, free of self-judgement as you fill in the dots.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>The Practice<\/strong><\/h4>\n<ol>\n<li>Choose a ritual from your reflection that might bring comfort to you now. It can be religious or not, that choice is yours<\/li>\n<li>As an option to #1, craft your own new ritual as I did. Gather inspiration from anything or anyone you feel drawn to \u2013 nature, other people, something you read online, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Complete the ritual you\u2019ve created, and decide if continuing it would be helpful. If you\u2019re not sure, try it and see.<\/li>\n<li>Verbally, internally, or in writing, describe how your ritual provides you with comfort.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you choose to do so, share your ritual with someone you trust. Perhaps even invite them to create their own.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you describe yourself as religious, spiritual, or something else, I leave you with the lyrics from the award-winning song, \u201cThe Prayer,\u201d by David Foster, Carole Bayer Sager, Alberto Testa, and Tony Renis. Perhaps a phrase or word will inspire you in some small way.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">The Prayer<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>I pray you\u2019ll be our eyes and watch us where we go<\/em><br \/><em>And help us to be wise in times when we don\u2019t know<\/em><br \/><em>Let this be our prayer<\/em><br \/><em>When we lose our way<\/em><br \/><em>Lead us to a place<\/em><br \/><em>Guide us with your grace<\/em><br \/><em>To a place\u00a0where we\u2019ll be safe<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">.fusion-body .fusion-builder-column-0{width:100% !important;margin-top : 0px;margin-bottom : 20px;}.fusion-builder-column-0 > .fusion-column-wrapper {padding-top : 0px !important;padding-right : 0px !important;margin-right : 1.92%;padding-bottom : 0px !important;padding-left : 0px !important;margin-left : 1.92%;}@media only screen and (max-width:1024px) {.fusion-body .fusion-builder-column-0{width:100% !important;order : 0;}.fusion-builder-column-0 > .fusion-column-wrapper {margin-right : 1.92%;margin-left : 1.92%;}}@media only screen and (max-width:640px) {.fusion-body .fusion-builder-column-0{width:100% !important;order : 0;}.fusion-builder-column-0 > .fusion-column-wrapper {margin-right : 1.92%;margin-left : 1.92%;}}<\/style><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">.fusion-body .fusion-flex-container.fusion-builder-row-1{ padding-top : 0px;margin-top : 0px;padding-right : 0px;padding-bottom : 0px;margin-bottom : 0px;padding-left : 0px;}<\/style><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":207145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[73],"tags":[46],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206858"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=206858"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206858\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":207351,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206858\/revisions\/207351"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/207145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=206858"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=206858"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.strengthbasedliving.com\/strengthbasedliving.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=206858"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}